Sexual Healing - 1: Sex toys

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Hiya! My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and it’s been great so far, but I don’t want the sex to become monotonous. That’s probably why I’ve recently had this urge to purchase a sex toy online – something kinky. I’m super excited but I’ve never used anything like a sex toy before and I need some advice on what I should purchase. Help?!

First and foremost, I think it’s absolutely wonderful that you’re being proactive about keeping your sex life hot, fun and interesting. You’re right – sex can get pretty routine, especially when relationships last for some years, but you’re taking the right steps to avoid that and ensure things stay spiced up between you and your boyfriend.

When it comes to buying a sex toy, the most important thing is to choose something that works for you both – something that’ll make you and your boyfriend feel super. So, to find something that gets the two of you turned on, it might be an idea for you guys to do a spot of online shopping. Together. This can be an amazing relationship building activity; you will discover new things about your boyfriend and he will find out fresh things about you, too! This should also help bring you closer together. Another likely bonus is that it’ll make the sex kinkier – a lot more amusing for you both.

I’d say the first thing to do is decide how much you’re willing to spend on your new battery gobbler, and then choose what talents you want your gadget to have. Considering this is your first time, if you’re unsure, go for something versatile – one you can use in more than one way.

Once you’ve used it and got to find the things you like best, you can delve deeper into this territory. LoveHoney brands itself as ‘The Sexual Happiness People’ and I personally find their options particularly good. You might just find that missing piece in your happy puzzle. 

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